Review of Nasboi’s “Could This Be Love” ft Chike
This song evokes emotions in me that a man — a modern, stoic man from a long line of stoic, non-smiling men — must never publicly admit, else he faces ostracism from his long list of non-smiling ancestors, who, after chastising me for listening to it, go away quietly, far away from the prying eyes of the umunna. There, in that secluded area, they tune in to this song and listen to it ruefully, tears flowing down their cheeks uncontrollably, remembering the very time Mataefi promised each of them marriage but ended up marrying Okonkwo — the village wrestling champion.
The song begins with a melodious tune, a symphony of sorts, with Nasboi clearly singing his heart out, lamenting his sleepless nights caused by his love for his ‘odoyewu.’
Hear him: “I can’t even sleep for night / I carry you for my mind / I don dey think of you / Calamity for my head / I can’t even hold myself.”
He further subtly questions his sanity as a result of his newfound love — an experience that is common with those recently in love. Chike’s verse was blissful and calming. His sonorous, unmistakable, and inimitable voice added much flavor and acted as the perfect complement to Nasboi’s velvety and somewhat husky voice. There couldn’t have been a more perfect match.
The song explores various themes such as love, life, or better put, the meaninglessness of life outside of love. It’s a breath of fresh air in the sense that it speaks on this issue of passionate love within relationships, in a time when relationships, especially in Nigeria, have been demonized and reduced to mere transactional exchanges, completely devoid of the passionate and unyielding love Nasboi sings about.
The song is even more poignant as it demonstrates that men of all shapes and sizes can freely express their emotions to those they love, without fear of the person’s reaction or societal shame. It challenges the notion that men must remain stoic and silent, showing that vulnerability — a pre-condition for love — is a strength, not a weakness.
The song’s lyrics are also a welcome relief, as they’re not your regular Nigerian lyrical gibberish. It’s distinct, unique in its own way, and most importantly, resonates deeply with the vast majority of people who experienced the tumultuous emotions of love.
The song, in many ways, speaks to everyday Nigerians in relationships or those trying to get into one, as though to tell them, “You are not alone. We see you. Don’t give up. Don’t be silent about how you feel. Let her/him know. And if they refuse to acknowledge and reciprocate your feelings, it’s not the end of the world. Don’t let it change you. Keep being you. Somebody who sees you for who you are and accepts you that way will come, and when that happens, you’ll both live happily ever after.”
Overall, the song is a genuine masterpiece. The production is solid, and the overall delivery is impeccable. In my opinion, this is Nasboi’s best work yet. I’m certain more masterpieces will follow from his stables, but for now, I’ll hold onto this one, replaying it and cherishing the beauty, the inexplicable beauty, mysteries, and blessings of passionate, unyielding love the song embodies.
